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YOUR STRATEGIC PERSONAL PLAN

January 21, 2012 by  
Filed under Scott Hammond

Scott and Joni in Maui

A Formula for Change—the Personal Strategic Plan
You would not dream of building anything of importance without some idea of what you wanted, would you?

The drawing or sketch you would create is called the blueprint. No matter how rough the Plan is, it will let your mind see what you want.

Your mind can then go to work developing the final plan that will get the project started. This is the only way the picture can become a reality.

Remember, a house is built one brick or board at a time. Your life is built the same way. If you don’t have a blueprint for erecting your project, just constructing at random, your building will never become anything more than a disarray of brick and wood. This would be disastrous for you, don’t you agree?

How many people do you know that live lives that look like that?

It is a fact that only 5% of the people in the greatest country in the world wind up their working days and retire financially able to take care of themselves. 95% of the people in the U.S. did not plan their lives; they merely accept what is given to them.

The final product for many plans is most often better than the first draft. This is because the vast greatest power of the mind pulls in all the facts and improves upon them. The part of the mind that does this is called the subconscious. It is, without a doubt, the greatest creation of the face of the earth. Not only is it the thing that separates man from animal, it is foundational to our creativity.

Have you ever gotten anything you really wanted? Of course you have! As a child you wanted things. You dreamed of your first Red Rider, bicycle, or Barbie doll, and behold, you got it! As you grew older, came a desire for a dress or a certain model of car. Up to that point, you dreamed it once and received a lot of things. Think about that.

5 Tools of Effective Families: Introduction

February 2, 2008 by  
Filed under Family, Relationships

What is it that we as parents want to leave with her kids afterward gone?

What will be our legacy and heritage?

Like Curly in the movie “City Slickers” asks: “What is that 1 Thing? “-That thing that defines and motivates your life…?

What will they say about you after you are gone?…and we all will be someday!

Why do we do what we do when it comes to our parenting?

Why is Intentional Parenting so important, vital, and a key priority?

In the “5 Tools for Effective Families“we will explore how to nurture our kids by setting a foundation of best practices.

We will learn to incrementally introduce in practice, the habits and tools to parent intentionally.

Our goal should be to nurture our children and help them flourish to be the best they can be.

We will explore listening, good communication, genuine encouragement, choosing to give grace, and laying a foundation of faith in God that governs all of who we are and where we are going as a family.

It all begins with relationship building on a quality life foundation that results in emotional health and well-being of our families.

The end goal that we may be able to leave a legacy and heritage for our children and their children as well.

Intentional parenting that equips, sets the foundation, and truly leaves a legacy is the definition of true riches.

We’ll explore these as we uncover the 5 Tools for Effective Families…

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