3rd Annual Father’s Day Writing Contest Winner Announced!

HERE IT IS…..NICE AND SIMPLE…..CONGRATS JANN S.

My father, Julian  died for his country,

he had a struggle that he left for me in his legacy

a struggle and an obsession with what i deem “THE ENEMY”

my dad’s addiction was passes down to me

i view it now as a rare and special gift

which is hard for some to see

but the gift brought me to my eternal father

a gift larger than any could possibly be

my life is purposeful now and anxiety free

my father is my king and the king of many

my father is not of this earth but he has left me directions

for my life in his written word

now i can let go of any pain and suffering and soar like a bird

I praise him and love him in every way

so that I can be with my dad, my father, my

God someday.

Jann S.

3RD ANNUAL FATHER’S DAY WRITING CONTEST

FATHERS DAY 2008 PUBLIC RADIO INTERVIEW

Short but compelling interview on fathers and Fathers Day.

Good and cool content full of good questions and ideas.

khsu-interview-final1 provoking…

11 Guidelines for Fathers Day

11 Guidelines For Effective Parenting

1. Really listen. Listening creates clear communication by giving undivided attention and encouraging expression of feelings. Have real conversations, when you both listen and respond/react to each other.
2. Encourage family activities. A sense of belonging is developed by doing things together, from social activities like driving to the store, going on an outing, or doing something fun together, to household chores or projects.
3. Discipline constructively. It is important to give clear directions and to enforce limits on behavior. Use a positive approach: “Do____”, rather than “Don’t___”.
4. Be consistent. Discuss and post house rules. If they change, announce the change. Better yet, have a family meeting to discuss the changes.
5. Be clear. Say what you mean and mean what you say. Don’t try to tell the other person what you think it is they want to hear. Stop being a pleaser… you will never please everyone, least of which yourself.
6. Be reasonable and understanding. Be willing to hear your child’s point of view. Have logic and compassion. Use grace and truth. Speak the truth in love.
7. Be flexible. Bargaining is an effective tool. Don’t major on the minors. Consider the individual.
8. Be authoritative. Trust in your own common sense. If you are not sure about a decision, announce the need for some time to think about it. Then, do not hesitate or be indecisive; simply lead.
9. Develop mutual respect. Model basic trust by being honest and sincere yourself. Insist that all family members treat each other with honor and respect. Be the first to apologize and repent when you err.
10. Attend to your own needs. Maintain your individuality and cultivate your interests and talents. Treat yourself well, thus avoiding the martyr syndrome.
11. Maintain a sense of humor. Finding humor in life is an important aspect of personal adjustment. Humor is a decision. It reflects a positive outlook that keeps issues in perspective, and separates what is really important from what is not.

3rd Annual Father’s Day Writing Contest.—”My Dad is AWESOME Because__________”

In honor of Father’s Day and fathers everywhere….

www.becomeabetterfather.com is sponsoring our 3rd Annual Father’s Day Writing Contest.

We want to know our readers opinions of what it takes to be a AWESOME father.

We value your opinion and would love to hear from you and what you think makes a great dad.

The question we pose is:

” MY DAD IS AWESOME BECAUSE__________________.”

That’s it!

Here are the official rules…

1. Write about what you think an AWESOME father is (A poem,essay, or other writing form) LIMIT 300-500 WORDS and simply email to us!
2. Email your entry to sjhammond@suddenlink.net
3. You must have your entry posted by midnight, Pacific Standard Time, June 30th, 2011.
4. July 1st, 2011, the lovely Mrs. Hammond will pick a winner based on what she think rocks!
5. The winner receives a free full one-hour consultation with Scott Hammond, an Every Day Book,  a full-featured blog post on www.becomeabetterfather and much more!
6. We will post an entry on this blog on July 1st 2011,  containing links to the winning entry…… so you will get a free link out of the deal.
7. You will win an autographed copy of the Every Day Dad: the Guide to Becoming a Better Father!!

That’s it and good luck! The question remains:   “MY DAD IS AWESOME BECAUSE__________________”

Best,

Scott Hammond FO-9
Father of Nine

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