The Mini Bucket List
November 27, 2008 by Scott Hammond
Filed under Goal-setting, Health/Wellness/Wholeness
The bucket list—
What one thing would you rather be doing right now?
Anything in the world? …
If you could go there and do it right now, what would that one thing be?
Talk of the bucket list has to do with the need for fun, risk, pleasure, midlife crisis and to do what right now is not doable… the concept of the bucket list assumes plenty of resources and time and money and the ability to execute them and implement one’s bucket list.
Not so fast…. Most of us don’t have the time or money or resources to go around the globe and to see the Kilimanjaro in Africa or to go check out the Pyramids of Egypt. Most of us are lucky to get a vacation once a year and perhaps go camping or stay at a Holiday Inn.
Hawaii might be a possibility for some of us, a very few, but for most of us were a bit stuck.
This being stuck is far more than just a lack of resources— it’s a lack of imagination and thinking out of the box. When you really take the time to think about what is possible and doable within your resources and means some really cool example start to emerge…. I call this the mini bucket list.
There are several Mini Bucket List things that we can get done on a local or regional basis. We still have the physical ability to set do some. The idea of something fun and risky and pleasurable before we die is a good idea. The physical decay of our bodies preclude us from doing many of the things that we’d really like to do that are very real radical…. But it still leaves us with many things that become extremely doable.
Here are some of the aspects of a many bucket list….
1. Affordability
2. Realistic
3. Pleasurable
4. Satisfying
5. Risk/perceived risk
6. Exhilarating
7. Local or regional
8. Ability to execute and implement
9. Legal moral and ethical
10. Out-of-the-box…
If you take the time and sit and think you can come up with at least 10 things you like to do before you pass, which are local and affordable and doable. Some of these might include:
1. Lunch or dinner out at the best place in town
2. A golf weekend, the best place available
3. Afternoon movies
4. Hike & picnic
5. River rafting
6. Two hour massage
7. Full Spa makeover
8. Kayaking
9. Fly to Vegas on a deal
10. Rent a cabin in the woods…. Much, much more.
The idea becomes obvious and the execution becomes painfully necessary for those of us who’ve created and lived in routines for years. The Mini Bucket List becomes therapeutic, in that it gives you some empowerment still have a little fun and a conservative and realistic way and still break the bonds of routine and rut. This becomes therapeutic in that it is risk-taking, and yet the perceived versus actual risk is actually pretty safe.
It fills the need for fun, risk and enjoyment.
Write your list.
Book the trip.
Surprise your spouse.
And get out of here!
Really, Get out of here!


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