Good Dad/Bad Dad 7 Secrets to Effective Fathers/Introduction Part 2
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Men are great project managers in the workplace, and even at home, but we fail miserably when it comes to relationship building…. allow me to explain….
Men tend to be great planners, movers, shakers, project managers, people managers…but we are often crappy at building relationships with those we love… why is that?
We can run a business and government, and even a society, but were often poor at running a family.
Our family—wife, children often get the leftovers of our mind, body emotions in spirit at the end of the day.
Here are a few of the reasons, the issues, problems, and challenges that face men and undermine their desire to create and build relationships of quality with their families…
No goals, objectives, or written plan to make family a priority
Poor time management skills… just being too busy… not making time for their priorities
Workaholism
Perfectionism
Poor skill sets with fathering
Poor fathering examples
Buying, owning and maintaining too many possessions and stuff
1000 other distractions, including low priority activities such as….
- computer
- TV
- gaming
- hobbies
- sports
- illicit activity
And when men get stuck, we never ask for directions….
How can we possibly admit weakness, vulnerability, or just being lost?
This all makes for a very sad situation.
Men are not picking and living heir priorities….
and once lost, not seeking to find a way back on track….
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Posted on October 26th, 2007 by Scott Hammond
Filed under: Fathering
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