Secret #2. Unconditional Love/Introduction
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Unconditional love…introduction
Action point: show your love by focused attention, eye contact, and appropriate touch.
Unconditional love is really letting your kids know they’re loved.
It’s saying, meaning, and living “I am truly on your side no matter what”…I am for you…. I am unconditionally on your side, always”.
Three action points to express unconditional love are…
- focused attention
- eye contact
- touch
These are the languages of love when it comes to raising well-adjusted, healthy kids.
We fathers need to make these a daily occurrence. Did you know that the average point of contact between fathers and children is under two minutes daily? This shouldn’t be!
We need to leverage these languages of love…and begin to not only speak them but to be fluent in all three… which language does your child respond to best?
Do you know? If not, why not? Are you speaking that language to your children today? If not now, when?
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Posted on November 6th, 2007 by Scott Hammond
Filed under: Fathering
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