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The job of the coach is to make people do what they want to do, but will not do well, or [...]
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Posted on November 15th, 2007 by Scott Hammond
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The marriage institution is in trouble with a 55% failure rate across the board…
What will you do in actionable terms to have a solid marriage? Can you apply yourself and your resources strategically and work toward the end of having a solid, grounded, balanced, and alive marriage with your wife?
A good marriage sets the [...]
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Posted on November 13th, 2007 by Scott Hammond
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As important as identifying your children’s strengths is being able and willing to identify their faults and weaknesses.
Having the courage to take a hard look at your child’s personal failures and weaknesses will enable you to begin to come behind them and support them.
This exercise, when done in love, can open the door for your [...]
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Posted on November 12th, 2007 by Scott Hammond
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Some fathers spend more time with their kids in one day, and some debts due in one week, or even one month!!
Why?…The difference?
Intentionality.
Time spent with your child shows your love by action.
We need both quality and quantity time with our kids.
We need to include them in our world, and include ourselves in their world.
Here’s some [...]
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Posted on November 10th, 2007 by Scott Hammond
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Respect is defined as… to care, esteem, regard, venerate,revere, honor or reverence.
It is at the core of how all individuals would like to be treated and spoken to.
As fathers when you to show it, in our conversation, tone, actions and kindness to her children.
We need not talk down to them as a smaller person, who [...]
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Posted on November 10th, 2007 by Scott Hammond
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Posted on November 9th, 2007 by Scott Hammond
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Posted on November 9th, 2007 by Scott Hammond
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Definition: focused attention is giving a person your full, undivided attention.
It is the most demanding of the three needs as it takes time, energy, and giving up other activities in order for us to give our focused attention to the people we love.
The average father spends less than two minutes a day in contact with [...]
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Posted on November 8th, 2007 by Scott Hammond
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Unconditional love…introduction
Action point: show your love by focused attention, eye contact, and appropriate touch.
Unconditional love is really letting your kids know they’re loved.
It’s saying, meaning, and living “I am truly on your side no matter what”…I am for you…. I am unconditionally on your side, always”.
Three action points to express unconditional love are…
focused attention
eye contact
touch
These [...]
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Posted on November 6th, 2007 by Scott Hammond
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The following are all the the don’ts of speaking…… don’t do these…..
Rapid talking….. and audience tires of the strain. Time is of the essence. Allow your audience to think on your statements and let the words sink in Very your room speaking rate. Pause here and there… it allows the [...]
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Posted on November 4th, 2007 by Scott Hammond
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